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Friday, March 25, 2022

I was so sorry to just recently hear of Kit’s passing in December. I was his secretary during his posting to Welland over several years, back in the late 70s, and had just recently been in touch through the Royal Bank retirees website. Kit was a wonderful manager to work for and his wife Lynn was a lovely lady, to whom he was really devoted. My sympathies to all his family on the loss of this lovely person.

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Bob & Diane Bell posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2022

I fondly remember my time as assistant manager in Welland Ontario from 1976 to 1978. Kit was a great boss and mentor. I learned many things from Kit that helped me successfully navigate a 38 year career with RBC. There was also the hockey that we tried to play in an industrial league. I believe Kit still holds the record for most goals against in a single game - but we all laughed about it and had fun. Great memories. Our sincerest condolences to Lynn and family. Bob & Diane Bell

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Fern Michel posted a condolence

Monday, March 14, 2022

Very sorry to hear of Kit's death in the recent RBC publication. Our banking relationship goes back to 1977 when I got transferred to the main Branch in Welland as a loans officer and Kit was the branch manager. In January of that year, we had the largest snow blizzard the Niagara Penisnula has ever had and it was named the Blizzard of 77, I also remember Kit been carried out of the branch having suffered a medical emergency in his bank office in the am. In the PM that day, he was back to work. We had a great working team at the branch.Made some great friends I still socialize with today. We also played in a recreational hockey league in the Niagara Peninsula. Kit was our goaltender. In one of our games, I guess he must have been subject to 50 to 60 shots on goal. While we got blown out that game, Kit made some fantastics saves that game. When I went over to congratulate him on one he made, he was a little slow in getting up. He said he was exausted and could not. We had a great chuckle and a few of the boys helped him back up for more punishment. A great team player and a great banker. RBC was fortunate to have him in their employ. All the best to his wife and the kids. RIP good friend. .

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Sally Cummings posted a condolence

Monday, January 10, 2022

I was acquainted with Kit through the Rotary Club of Saint John. I was surprised and saddened to learn of his death. He will fondly be remembered as a really great guy. I am sorry for your family's loss. We are thinking of you and send our deepest condolences. Kit will very much be missed by many.

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Clarence Deveau posted a condolence

Thursday, January 6, 2022

I will always remember Kit's kindness as a RBC employee, and especially since he recommended me to the Bank of Canada after my retirement from RBC, which allowed me to work half years for the next twenty years. My wife, Leonice, joins me in offering his family and friends our most sincere condolences. May he rest in peace..... Clarence Deveau

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Dave Bourque posted a condolence

Thursday, January 6, 2022

So sorry to hear of Kit's passing. He was a fine gentleman and I enjoyed working with him. Dave Bourque

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Ron D Berry posted a condolence

Thursday, January 6, 2022

So sorry to hear about Kit. He was a fine gentleman and a pleasure to work for. Ron Berry - Riverview Branch.

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Jamie and Liz Durning posted a condolence

Thursday, January 6, 2022

To Lynn & family: We are very sorry to learn of Kit's passing and extend our sincere condolences on your loss. Jamie and Liz Durning, Truro, N.S.

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Tania Huk posted a condolence

Wednesday, January 5, 2022

Dear Lynn and family, I am very saddened to learn of Kit's passing. I remember fondly his kindness, sense of humour and what a loyal friend he was to Steve and me. Praying for solace and peace for those who love him. May eternal memory be his. With much love, Tania Huk

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Joan Lawrence posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Dear Mara and Kristen Please accept my heartfelt condolences in the passing of your great and kind Dad. I hope time’s passing brings healing and peace to soften your sadness. Joan Lawrence

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Staff & Board of Directors, St. Joseph's Hospital Foundation posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Lynn and family, Sincere condolences on Kit's passing. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

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Elly Eckardt posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Dearest Lynn, Mara, David, Kristen & Jim It is with very heavy heart that I send my love to you all at this very sad time. I know your hearts are broken, as is mine, at the loss of yet another brother. Kit was always, ALWAYS there for me, thru good times and not so good times, providing me with support and love. I will miss him terribly and I will especially miss his phone calls. He would always answer with “Elly Belly” how are you???? He was the only brother that ever called me that. and the only one who I would allow to call me that. When I talked to him, just before Xmas, that is how he answered the phone and as always he ended it with “I Love You.! I have so many fond memories of Kit as I was growing up, tho sadly being nearly 7 years older, I did not get to see as much of him as I would have liked. One of those cherished memories is when I was offered a senior position with Scotiabank (yes, I was the traitor in the family) and Kit called to congratulate me. I was so scared as I had no idea how to supervise people. His words of advice to me were “don’t worry Elly, just treat everyone like you would like to be treated and you will be fine”. Such wise words as he was right, I did exactly that and it paid off big time. My second biggest memory is when I was about 12 or 13, Kit had come home for the w/end (he was working in Berwick, N.S. at the time) and was standing out on our front porch smoking. As I stood beside him, in awe, he asked me if I wanted to try taking a puff. Of course I said yes, and at his instructions I inhaled and then tried to exhale thru my nose. Well I coughed and choked and turned various shades of green, I can honestly say that I never put another cigarette to my mouth again! Thank you Kit!! Kit was devoted to his loving wife Lynn, his 4 children and his grand children and was so very proud of each and every one of them. He had a wonderful life, and tho these past two years have been tough ones for him, I am thankful he is now free from pain and in a better place. He may have left this earth but I know he will be in ALL of our hearts forever! I love you Kit!

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Beverley Payn Jones posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Dear Lynn and Family, We were all there with you. It was an absolutely beautiful service, Kit would have loved it. It was very emotional to not be there, but heartwarming to see you all❤. Thank you all, and Mara...may we please have a copy of what was obviously a great, meaningful eulogy . We couldn't hear clearly from that Mike. GOD BLESS YOU ALL today, tomorrow nd always.I treasure Kit's call the week before he left us. Bev

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Simon Payn posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Dear Aunt Lynn, Krissy, Mara, David, and Jim I want you to know my thoughts are with you and the whole family. I remember having lots of great times with Uncle Kit and the family growing up. He was an amazing man, a cherished uncle, and honored to have him as my godfather. I remember the first golf club he gave me, it was a 7 wood (I said,, What's a 7 wood?). Never has it left my golf bag, and nor will it as it. Lots of love Simon Payn

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Mark Austen posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Dear Aunt Lynn and cousins. I am sorry to hear of the passing of my Godfather and Uncle. Although we were not able to see each other much through the years I will still miss him very much. He and Aunt Lynn have always been very good to me and it is so appreciated. My condolences and love to all of you, Mark

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Michelle posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Aunt Lynn, Mara, Krissy, Jim and David It is with a heavy heart that I send my condolences to you all. I have many fond memories of Uncle Kit and our time together. Wishing you peace and love at this time. Much love, Michelle, Tyler and Brianne

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Tuesday, January 4, 2022

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Anna McCourt posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Dear Aunt Lynne and cousins. I was so sorry and sad to hear about Kit’s passing. We didn’t get to see each other much over the last decades but when we did, your dad always made me smile and laugh. He had such a great sense of humor and was always kind to me. Thinking of you all and holding you in my heart. Anna McCourt

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Tuesday, January 4, 2022

The world will be a sadder place without this wonderful man. Joan and I cherished his friendship which dates back 40 years or so. Even though many miles separated us from time to time we never lost touch, visited when possible both here in Sarasota and in N.B. and spoke frequently. We are deeply saddened by his passing and will miss him greatly.

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Monday, January 3, 2022

I couldn't have asked for a better father-in-law. He was a great man and would fill any room he was in with his amazing presence. He made us all laugh with his special humour and was also a great story teller. He will be deeply missed but my memories of him will forever last. My sincere condolences to Lynn, his life companion, and to Mara, Kristin & Jim (and David of course). Lots of love & strength in these though times. Caroline XXX

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Alexis Connolly posted a condolence

Monday, January 3, 2022

Dear Aunt Lynn and Family, With a heavy heart we send our condolences to you all and know there is a void never filled when people so loved by us pass on. I have the fondest memories of times with you and Uncle Kit, David, Mara and Kristen. Great memories of times in the Bahamas as well as at the farm, and at your homes in Canada, where as a child I remember being fascinated by the fact that it was still light outside at 9:00pm and you could ride bikes at that hour at your home. I thought it was just your home that held that magic. I’m sure Kit created those magical moments for all of you many times over. I know he is sorely missed and pain and hurtis taking up all the space in you minds and hearts. We pray that will ease as happier memories replace the sadness you’re feeling today. We love you all so very much and are there with you virtually on Tuesday. Much love always, Chris and Alexis

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John Murray posted a condolence

Sunday, January 2, 2022

My condolences to all! Kit was the Vice President in New Brunswick that oversaw and endorsed my appointment as a branch manager in Fredericton, and always admired his leadership. I also discovered in reading this that we share the same hometown of Lachine...something we never knew about each other! He will be missed...all the best.

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Robert Payn posted a condolence

Sunday, January 2, 2022

This is a very sad time for the Payn family. My brother, Kit, has left us - and created a void that cannot be replaced. Words cannot express how the loss of a brother will affect all of us, but none more so than Lynne, David, Mara, Kristin and Jim, who have lost their father, husband, and an anchor in their lives. I know that only hugs and prayers will help ease the emptiness they are all feeling right now. I wish I were closer to embrace all of you. Val and I, along with my brother, David, and our sisters, Beverly and Elly and their spouses, are also grieving with Lynne and their children. My memories of Kit, as a big brother is that I didn't get to know as well as I would have liked. He left home by the time I got to an age to appreciate having a big brother such a big brother. What I do know is that I was always excited to tell my Granville Ferry friends that my brother, Kit, was a " first star goalie for RBC". (Kit would confirm this). I remember Kit coming home with his beautiful new wife, Lynne, in a big, pink-colored Imperial that had more buttons than my shirts. My big brother was cool! I was always proud to speak of my brother, Kit, as he had an influencing demeanor from a very early age. Years passed by, and we never really got to connect as much as I would have liked. But what I do know is that Kit was always there for me when I was struggling. His words were calming, and he was there to give loving and helpful advice, if I asked. Over the years, I saw my brother as a very strong, loving husband and dad who cherished his wife and adored his children. They filled his heart with happiness; they were so very important to him. Now, while Kit is gone, his memory and spirit will remain very close to all of us. I love you, my brother, and I pray for you as you move on. Your family will take good care of Lynne, as she will them. and make sure she maintains the garden that you loved so much. Rest in peace, Kit, Your baby brother, Bob

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Dominique and Ian Mackenzie posted a condolence

Sunday, January 2, 2022

Dear aunt Lynn and family, We were so saddened by the news of uncle Kits passing. He always seemed larger than life, a wonderful Payn trait. Maybe this is why the hole they leave in our hearts feels so huge. I know in my heart the gang is together watching over us all. Love always Dominique and Ian Mackenzie

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John/Judy Williams posted a condolence

Saturday, January 1, 2022

Dear Lynn and family It was with deep sadness we learned of Kit’s passing and offer our sincere condolences to you and your family. Kit was a well respected colleague in RBC and made a significant contribution to the success of the Bank in Atlantic. His quick wit was memorable in that he could always lighten a tense situation and keep the team moving forward. I enjoyed working with him very much and of course your Island visits , golf games and relaxed dinners at the cottage will always be remembered. Kit will always be remembered as a devoted husband and father by all who knew him. Lynn, Covid restrictions on the Island prevents us from attending the funeral , but please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time. John and Judy, Charlottetown, PE

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Paul and Liz Meier posted a condolence

Saturday, January 1, 2022

Paul and I were so surprised and sorry to read of Kit's passing. I am very glad for our chance meeting at Sobeys a few months ago to have had an opportunity to see and chat with you both. Kit had a wonderful reputation in the business community as a solid banker, a very friendly and accepting kind of man to everyone, whether a client or not. He will be missed.

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Felicity Osepchook posted a condolence

Friday, December 31, 2021

Dear Lynn, we were so sorry to hear of Kit’s passing and offer our condolences to you and your family. We fondly remember Kit’s kind tolerance of our (sometimes raucous) yearly book club Christmas celebrations at your house. Warm thoughts and prayers from Angaila, Judith, Anne, Pam, Helen and Felicity

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Brian Hay posted a condolence

Friday, December 31, 2021

It has been many years since we worked together in Freeport. So sorry to learn of his death, my deepest sympathy to you Lynn and the family. Brian Hay Sidney, BC

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Anne & Larry Timms posted a condolence

Friday, December 31, 2021

A warm smile, quick wit wrapped in kindness- the Kit Payn I knew. You were his rock, Lynn. May the memories help you through the sadness and grief.

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Sam & Eleanor Walters posted a condolence

Friday, December 31, 2021

Lynn, Kristin,David,Jim,Mara,and all family ,it was with great sadness we learned of Kit’s passing. We wish to express our sincere condolences on your loss. Kit was always a pleasure to be around or to converse with and it was our privilege to have known him. It was a great joy to work with him on the Executive team in Atlantic Canada for RBC Royal Bank. He was a committed professional and made a tremendous contribution to the success of RBC wherever he worked. Lynn ,you and his entire family was so important to him and he had great pride in everything they did and accomplished. Both of us had the privilege of attending Kit’s retirement dinner and it was at the time so obvious to Eleanor and I how much he was admired and respected by his NB RBC team. Rest In Peace friend. You will be dearly missed . God Bless Sam & Eleanor St John’s NL

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Colin Krulicki posted a condolence

Friday, December 31, 2021

Offering my condolences to Mara, Kristin and family. So sorry to hear of Kit’s passing. I worked with Kit back in the late 90’s and always had a ton of respect for him, how he treated people and the importance of those around him. He leaves a legacy that will be remembered.

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Stacey Mott posted a condolence

Friday, December 31, 2021

So sorry for your loss Kristin and family. Extending our sincere condolences. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Love Stacey, Dennis & Family xo

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Martha Zed posted a condolence

Friday, December 31, 2021

Lynn, Peter and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. I enjoyed working with Kit on so many fund raising projects at the SJRHF. He opened many doors for significant contributions to our health care system. He made our work fun….and never was discouraged. He will be missed but always remembered. Martha and Peter Zed

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Bob Whitters posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

So sorry to hear of Kit's passing. He was great to work for! Always professional and fair. I remember him taking me along for lunch at the Union Club and having a pool match lined up with fellow members upstairs. He was very competitive! RIP Kit. You will be missed. Thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Sincerely, Bob Whitters

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Allan Turnell posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Well Kelly, the world is a little bit sadder now!! My sympathy to you and your family!! I played a lot of Golf and bowling with Kit. I remember my early years at the club. Kit loved the rangs games he was a keen adversary on the golf course. He will be missed dearly. God will definitely have a foursome for Kit. My God Bless you and the family and help heal the wound of your loss. Allan

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Harry, Heather, and Stephany posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

May you find comfort in the love that surrounds you. May you find joy in a rich tapestry of memories. May you find peace in this new life chapter as a family. May you find strength in the fact that you are because he was. We join with you to honour a cherished life by relishing in some razor sharp wit; in the spirit of service above self; and a perfectly toasted piece of bread at the Captain’s Table. Harry, Heather, and Stephany Peterson

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Angela Georgoudis posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Our deepest sympathies to you Kristen and family. You’re all in our thoughts and prayers ❤️ Love George Angela and family xo

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Margo Buchanan posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

My deepest sympathies on Kit’s passing, I have many memories of our time on the boards of Credit Counselling Services and Saint John Rotary. A wonderful community minded gentleman he will be missed. Regards Margo Buchanan

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Louise Romikat posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Mrs Payn, Mara, Kristen & Jim. My condolenes to you and your family. Cherish your many memories!

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Norman Purdy posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Dear Lynn and Family., Saddened to hear of Kit's passing, and please accept my condolences and heartfelt sympathy from all of Kit's fellow and past Rotarians. I met Kit in 2009 when I joined Rotary in Saint John. Kit impressed me with his sincerity and good humour. As we got to know each other Kit told me about growing up as a boy in rural Nova Scotia, and how he built a career with RBC that allowed him to see Canada and other countries. Kit cared, cared about Rotary, cared about his community and most of all cared about his family. In 2014 at our charter night, Kit was awarded a Paul Harris Fellowship by his fellow Rotarians - Kit was at a loss for words and I'll always remember that smile. He was, and will forever be an inspiration and a person to remember for his kindness, common sense and commitment to the Rotary motto "service above self" . Norm Purdy, Saint John Rotary

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Tom & Nancy Creamer posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Lynn and family, We are so sorry to hear of Kits passing. He contributed so much to our community. Our deepest condolences to all Kits family. Sincerely, Tom & Nancy Creamer

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Bernard & Elizabeth Cormier posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Dear Lynn and Family, We were very saddened to learn of Kit's passing and extend our heartfelt sympathies and condolences for your loss. I had many wonderful times with Kit when I was actively involved with the Rotary Club of Saint John. He was such a great guy and I always enjoyed the times we were able to work together on various committees and projects. His wonderful way of interacting with everyone will definitely be missed. Our caring thoughts and prayers are with you all, as you reflect on his life and many contributions to family and community. Peace. Most sincerely, Bernie & Elizabeth

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Graham Macdougall posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Kit will be missed by all his “StudMuffins” , Parrtown and bowling buddies. He hated to lose but he made us all try harder .Donna and I send our sincere condolences to Lynn and family . Graham & Donna Macdougall

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Zita Hourihan posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Mara, Kelly & Payn Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Zita Hourihan & Eric Giffin

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Parker Knox posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Kit was a great guy to work with! I will always remember our laughter and jokes whenever things got real serious at Senior Management Meetings! I worked with him in BC and Atlantic District! He was a “ true Gem” in my RBC eyes and will be truly missed by so many of his colleagues! Our sincere sympathies to his entire family- will miss your quick wit & humour! YOOOO! Parker Knox

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John Wheatley posted a condolence

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Lynn, my condolences to you and your family on Kit’s passing. I first met Kit through Rotary many years ago and I am well aware of the great contributions he made to our community. Sincerely, John Wheatley

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Patrick Gallagher posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 29, 2021

Lynn and Family my sincere sympathy on reading of Kit’s death. I did enjoy dealing with you and Kit and how many times did I have you come to Shadow Lawn to have to put you out but you always came back. Thank You Lynn the credit goes to you but it may have been Kit. I always felt close to you both. Great Memories and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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Pat seeds posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 29, 2021

My sincere condolences to Kit's wife and family,I knew him when I worked for RBC,he was a very nice person

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Angela Hall posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 29, 2021

Kristin and Family I am so sorry for your loss! May your memories live large each day! ~Angela Hall

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Wednesday, December 29, 2021

Kit Payn

1939 - 2021

Mass of Christian Burial